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Anger Management and Teenage Aggression

Anger Management and Teenage Aggression

 

Teenage anger management refers to the practice of learning techniques and strategies to control and appropriately express anger in adolescents, often involving identifying triggers, developing coping mechanisms like deep breathing, and understanding the underlying causes of their frustration, while aggression in teenagers is the display of hostile or violent behaviours, which can manifest as yelling, physical outbursts, or verbal attacks, stemming from uncontrolled anger. 

Key points about teenage anger management and aggression:

  • Developmental stage: Teenagers are particularly susceptible to intense emotions due to hormonal changes during puberty, which can lead to more frequent anger outbursts. 
  • Recognising triggers: Identifying situations or events that commonly trigger anger is crucial for managing it effectively. 
  • Healthy coping mechanisms: Anger management techniques include deep breathing exercises, mindfulness practices, physical activity, taking timeouts, and talking to a trusted adult. 
  • Underlying causes: Anger can be a symptom of deeper issues like stress, anxiety, depression, or unresolved conflicts, which need to be addressed. 
  • Seeking professional help: If a teenager's anger is significantly impacting their life or relationships, seeking therapy or counselling from a mental health professional is recommended. 

 

Signs of teenage aggression:

  • Frequent arguments and fights
  • Yelling and verbal abuse
  • Physical violence towards people or property
  • Difficulty controlling temper
  • Withdrawing from social activities
  • Self-harming behaviours 

 

How to support a teenager struggling with anger:

  • Open communication: Listen actively to their concerns and validate their feelings without judgment. 
  • Set clear boundaries: Establish rules and consequences for inappropriate behaviour. 
  • Teach coping skills: Help them practice relaxation techniques and identify healthy ways to express their emotions. 
  • Positive reinforcement: Acknowledge and praise positive behaviours 
  • Seek professional help: If necessary, consult a therapist or counsellor specialized in adolescent mental health. 

 

 

Resources:

Dissociation Information - Dissociation-in-Children-Teens

Learning Zone Model - Learning Zone Model

Lemons Lemonade for Teens - Lemons-Lemonade-Teens.pdf

Dealing with my anger worksheet - Dealing with my anger

Dirty and Clean Anger - Anger categories

Anger Management PowerPoint - Anger Management

Anger Rules - Anger Rules - Tension Scale Instructions

Behaviours and how to deal with them - Fight Flight or Freeze

Dealing with child anger - NHS Dealing with child anger

Aggression Cycle - Aggression Cycle

Building Resilience in Children - Resilience Building

How I deal with an incident (Parent) - Incident Flow Chart

Parents stop and Think - Stop and Think

Breaking the Cycle Manual (child to parent abuse) - BTC MANUAL FINAL 2019.pdf

Be kind to yourself - Be kind to yourself

Little Book of Mindfulness - Little-Book-Of-Mindfulness.pdf

Self Harm (Guide for Parents and Carers) - Coping with Self Harm Brochure_FINAL_copyright.pdf

Self Control Worksheet - Self Control

Youtube videos:

Your special Teenage Brain by Nicola Morgan - Your Special Teenage Brain

Understanding Trauma: Learning Brain vs Survival Brain - Understanding Trauma: Learning Brain vs Survival Brain

Anger Management for Teens - Anger Management for Teens (and Adults)

How to be angry - Anger Management for Kids - How to Be Angry

Anger Iceberg - Anger Iceberg Activity – Anger Management For Kids – What’s Beneath The Surface?

The Window of Tolerance (Managing our Emotions) - Window of Tolerance